Tuesday, May 9, 2023

Forgiving injustices beyond our control to change


The secret to successfully living a life that will prove unjust at some point is the ability to forgive.  Not just people, but situations—many of which are beyond our control to correct.  

This is the most fundamental way 
to SUCCEED in one’s life, 
otherwise we may have a hard time 
overcoming situations that cause us to despair.

True success in life is built on 
maintaining a healthy spiritual heart.

As a prelude to what is coming, injustices will occur in this life, and not just specific injustices that might be righted in due course or in good time.  At some point there will come an injustice we cannot do anything about.  And there will be dozens of those times in our lives over the long haul.

In these situations that occur both ad hoc and in clumps, and our attitude overall needs to conform to the Gospel way of Jesus, which is:

Injustices are only overcome through forgiveness.

This GOSPEL way was modelled at the Cross, 
and it has become our model in declaring victory over sin.

Frankly, when the world offers every other alternative, 
including “get even,” forgiveness is the ONLY way.

The Gospel Way is redemption in a single human being, in a couple, in a community, over an entire world if hearts be aligned.  To what?  To the overcoming of injustice now and for all time in our Lord Jesus Christ, who His Father used to forgive, once and for all, the iniquity of us all who believe in and follow this same Christ.

The Gospel Way is proven—decade after decade, century after century, millennium after millennium—and this is historically correct—as the only way to achieve spiritual victory.

THE IDOL OF INSISTING JUSTICE BE DONE

Of course, we struggle with all this.  At some point life will test us, but a heart-alignment to the Gospel imperative of forgiveness brings freedom, but obviously not without sacrifice.

Our key enemy is not Satan.  Satan is an instrument pushing us toward the real enemy.  Satan, the world, our flesh—all three push us into the milieu of the real challenges that face us on a daily and momentary basis.

Idols are the real enemy. 
Idols underpin the role of 
the world, Satan and our flesh.
Idols are the common denominator.

Idols are those things on our hearts that don’t belong—anything that does not align with truth and love, and therefore which is enmity toward God.

One of our key idols is justice.  Not that justice is a bad thing.  It isn’t.  It is good to desire justice.  However, when we demand a good desire be delivered to us—i.e., that justice be done on our terms—our good desire becomes an idol.

An idol takes the place of God in our heart.

The theology of idols is proven 
in how good desires become demands 
that cause us to judge and then punish people 
when they do not give us what we demand.

For instance, when we demand a person repents. 
Beyond calling someone to account, 
only God can change a heart.

At such times, we may put justice above God when to honour God would mean us waiting humbly for it.  God sees it ALL—all injustice—and He will judge it.

When we insist justice be done in our time and by the ways we can procure it, we may have elevated justice above the goodness of faith that believes all things will be made new at the right time.

Justice is important to God, 
because life is about truth and love.

Whether we get justice in this life or not 
is less important than trusting God to bring justice.

This is hard to swallow, 
but forgiving injustices 
is a discipleship challenge: 
Who is God in this mess?
Can God be “good” even in a travesty?

None of this is about ignoring proper legal courses of action that in all due diligence must be observed.  What must be properly done must be properly done.  But many of the injustices that occur to us are beyond legal recourse.  They are beyond cogent and coherent human control.

We cannot do improperly what is improperly done, even if it seems right in our and others’ eyes.  Some justice must properly be in the waiting.

Of course, this seems odd.  But remember we are living a life of SERVITUDE to a King who sees ALL in any event.  When we truly understand this, we are at peace leaving that justice to Him, in faith, who is faithful and just, knowing He will deliver on His justice at the right time, in the right way.

TRUE JOY IN TRUST THAT GOD WILL DELIVER

The truest peace is enjoyed when we fully trust God to deliver upon His promises.  There is no point fixating on any other outcome because Psalm 37:8 points out what happens: 

“Refrain from anger and renounce wrath, 
do not fret—it leads [us to do] only evil.”

We know this to be true.  Injustice corrodes the heart when we have no place to take the pain we experience in the confusion of a situation we cannot make sense of.

Then we have verses like “Consider it pure joy, brothers and sisters, when you face trials of many kinds” from James 1:2, and we cannot help thinking, “What!  Joy in the pain of THIS trial?”  Especially in the pain of confusion for the grieving bitterness of injustice.

THE PRACTICALITIES OF JOY IN SUFFERING

Less important is justice when joy may be had in any event, especially when joy will protect us and those close to us from overreactions to that which we cannot control.  Think about any situation that may arise in our lives—even that which we find innately stressful.

The greatest joy in life 
is experiencing peace in suffering.

Christians have access to such a thing.
IT IS BIBLICAL.
It is written about a great deal in God’s Word.

Each moment that we catch ourselves fretting is a moment to remind ourselves of the choice we have for joy.  Of course, if joy is to be found in an abhorrent situation, we will be challenged to find another definition for it; or we may deduce that joy is possible EVEN in the present grief.  Suffering reframes what joy is when we can access it there.

JUSTICE OR SELF-RIGHTEOUSNESS?

Any justice we negotiate or manufacture or manipulate for is not a justice that stands up to any test of truth.

It is no good to ‘arrange’ a justice unjustly, which is about bringing a person or situation to account in truth, but without full account of love, and this happens more than we will admit when we insist on our justice.

This is not to say that bringing a justice forth 
isn’t loving because it definitely can be.

It all depends on our heart.  We must have:

Good hearts for justice, 
hearts of love for those being brought to account, 
hearts that have forgiven the injustice, 
hearts that are ready to embrace the repentant and 
genuinely pity the one still resident in their sin.

All this is about LIVING the gospel that saves us.  It is about living the love that has been modelled to us.  It is all about us experiencing the LIFE that comes from following in Jesus’ footsteps, even as we experience the freedom available in coveting nothing anymore.

There is a joy to be had in our Christian walk, but that joy is only possible when we surrender our demands for a self-righteous justice for the freedom we can only behold.

This world promises a kingdom 
that allures but only returns bondage. 

God’s Kingdom however promises freedom 
and delivers on same.

There is only one way to sample 
a freedom nothing can touch. 
That is when we give our all to God.

The cosmic irony in all this is we only give our all to God when God has made Himself known to us and ambushed our hearts with His love.

We don’t truly understand what God has done for us until we have grasped the mercy that has been poured out at Calvary for each of us.

Until we understand this mercy that must grasp us for us to grasp it, we do not understand the fullness of what God has given us, and therefore we are not free to forgive those who sin against us.

But there is joy in a heart that can forgive those who sinned against us, and for the most serious of sins this is indeed a process.  All we need know, however is, it is possible to extend a scandalous grace toward others when we have been benefactors of an infinitely more scandalous grace.

Thursday, May 4, 2023

Forgiving the Unjust Situations of Life


Life is long until it’s short, but in the long and short of it, it is about forgiveness.  It is about redemption or redeeming those facets of life that overcome us.  Forgiveness helps us overcome that which overcomes us.

Forgiveness is the essential maintenance of the spiritual life.

Throughout the seasons and meandering narratives of one’s life, forgiveness is necessary for spiritual survival, let alone to thrive—forgiveness, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness, and in health.

A better marriage partner than another human being is a relationship with God where we can and readily do let go of that which we have no control over, can never possess, and surrender all demand for.

There is a fundamental wisdom in the forgiveness 
that is persistently hinted at eternally in the gospel.

Forgiveness is a gospel reality 
where the gospel reveals 
not only the rudiments of salvation, 
but also the only viable way to live.

The gospel way to life is a 
secret hidden in plain sight,
that is, to live and to love, and to 
accept what cannot be changed.

In forgiveness is the wisdom of peace, 
and the sustainment of joy and hope,
and the fuelling and refuelling of love.

~

UNDERSTANDING THE WISDOM OF THE HEART

Life beckons forth a truth that all prosper hearing and applying.  If only we will look for it and listen, but the majority chose not to.  The nature of life is the best way of living is so rarely experienced.  This is because it requires honesty, integrity, humility, and selflessness, and these and other virtues don’t appear rewarding in a buy-now-pay-later world.

Nestled deep in the heart of the gospel 
is the imperative to live for virtues like honesty, 
integrity, humility, and selflessness.

The ‘deeper knowledge’ in gospel living
is delivered time and again 
over the longer course of time.

Proverbs 4:23 tells us to “Guard your heart,” for “it is the spring from which all of life comes.”  There perhaps has never been a deeper, more resonant truth.  It says that spiritual maintenance is at the core of soul and self.  The spiritual self IS our personal entirety.  It underpins our physical self, our mental self, and our emotional self.

Perhaps it’s not a particular person that has disappointed or hurt or betrayed us.  Maybe it’s the situations of life we find ourselves in, even as we struggle not to compare our lives with others’ lives—others who have been ‘more’ successful, possess ‘more’, are ‘more’ attractive in some way.

Even as we dig deeper into those disappointments, broken dreams, hurts and betrayals, we perhaps notice that what underlies these anomalies of justice are the situations themselves we found ourselves in.

The wisdom to life seems fundamental.  But it is verily a treasure trove of such depths it leads us to fathomless adventures into the heart which IS life.

The heart that maintains its commitment to forgive any and all circumstances is a heart fortified against the toils and snares of a life that would tear us asunder.

The deeper knowledge bellows forth a wisdom: 
injustices are only overcome through forgiveness.

~

A HEART HEALED IS WISDOM

A commitment to forgive as well as a commitment to seek to be forgiven is life because it is healing, and because it is healing, it is wisdom.  Such healing is the wisdom of God that many may disparage but none can deny its power.

A heart healed—any heart—is wisdom. 

Any heart healed is life for that heart 
and for all other hearts in its vicinity.

The greatest gift of any life is the life 
that that life can give to other lives.

A healed heart gives the gift of life to all those in its sphere of influence.  The greatest of these gifts is the presence of safety received by others that they may not only coexist in the space, having refuge beyond threat, but that they would be afforded the love that each person sees themselves worthy of.

It is imprinted in us as those bearing God’s image that we are worthy of care, of respect, of recognition, and of value—immense value.  The evidence of this is humanity’s need of healing whenever a soul is damaged.

Humanity’s need is of love. 
Little do we realise how close 
to our own grip this love is. 
Love comes close and 
intimately when we forgive.

Forgive and we are healed.

~

FORGIVENESS, THE WAY TO LIFE

There are no two ways about the fact that forgiveness is the way to LIFE.  Though it feels a tremendous sacrifice to forgive someone or something, forgiveness gives back to the forgiver and the forgiven in such a way as everyone wins.  And that is evidence of a healed heart—that it should want ALL to prosper.

No debts are held.
No debts are incurred.
No debts remain.

Freedom penetrates the bonds of bitterness, 
and purges the darkness with eternal light.

Forgiveness is the way to life because it is unhindered life.  A heart that clings to the hurts of past is encumbered and bonded to that which does not belong anymore.

Hearts at peace with a life however it is oriented or has occurred are healed to the extent that the forgiveness experienced is its own cogent power source.

It is obvious that there is only one way to life, 
and that way is the way of peace, 
and, in essence, the gospel.