“So [the prodigal son] set off and went to his
father. But while he was still far off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion; he ran and put his arms
around him and kissed him.”
— Luke 15:20 (NRSV [bolding for emphasis])
What sort of person was Jesus?
We can only gain when we ponder
such a question in the midst of a gospel story such as the father with his two
lost sons in Luke 15:11-32. Jesus, of course, had two audiences he was speaking
to—as he typically spoke. Most of Jesus’ teaching would have started
predictably so far as context is concerned. But then the story would always get
turned on its head. The traditional response the Pharisees and religious rulers
of the day expected never came; in the case of the story of the prodigal son,
the father is not a harsh disciplinarian—as the Jewish tradition dictated;
instead, the father’s compassion subsumes all of the son’s prior sin, by a mode of care that
would vouchsafe his safety.
The son was broken. If the response
to the son’s brokenness were to have been chastisement there would have been no
healing of the relationship and no healing for either the son or the father—no
unification. Punitive action has limited real effectiveness.
But there was healing. There was healing
because the father took it upon himself to run to the son and welcome him with
open and loving arms, for the son had repented.
The Exercise of Mercy
Those who would easily condemn
another person may find themselves condemned within. One cannot love out of
themselves if they don’t feel loved within.
Jesus liberates us from
condemnation to the point that he wills us to resolve our inner
differences first—yes, those
things within us that prevent us from accessing our own healing. We cannot love
other people as Jesus would have us love them unless we love ourselves as Jesus
would have us love ourselves.
In the context of the story, mercy
is to be swift upon repentance. But pre-repentance also deserves a good portion
of mercy in the way we deal with people. If we have a good sense-of-self
because we accept ourselves for who we are, we will love people out of that
love that emanates from within us.
How can we be merciful to others
if we haven’t already been merciful to ourselves; if we haven’t allowed God’s forgiveness
to truly permeate us?
***
We are all shaped by sin like the
Prodigal Son. Our Father stands eternally with arms wide open ready to receive
us; to heal us, to restore us, and make us brand-new. When we’re broken by
failure, betrayal and loss, we must run without hesitation into the Father’s loving
arms; a place where no shred of condemnation exists.
© 2013 S. J. Wickham.
Acknowledgement: to Pastor Dale Stephenson.
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