Saturday, February 16, 2008

Life wasn't meant to be easy

Former Australian Prime Minister, Malcolm Fraser (1975-1983) was famously quoted for quoting George Bernard Shaw's, “Life wasn’t meant to be easy, my child, but take courage: it can be delightful!” It is rather unfortunate that Fraser only used the first line, which has a rather unsympathetic and hard feel to it. Shaw's quote, from his book, Back to Methuselah, is transformed by the second sentence. Fraser was to be quite roundly, and perhaps unfairly, criticised for the "snobby" sentiment with which the comment was couched.
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I recall first hearing Fraser's quote used by my mother. And she used it often. Or even it was often enough as a response to any reaction either myself or my siblings had to the 'rough justice' (skewed perception of the child) of upbringing. "Such is life," as Tom Collins also famously said.
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Yet this hard phrase is a truism. Life was never ever meant to be easy. It isn't easy for anyone. Each one of us has to suffer; some suffer more than others do, of course. Some suffer greatly because of the life choices they make, and some suffer greatly just by virtue of the life situation with which they've been placed. In other words, for the latter, it's not their fault.
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Life is about character growth. It's about faith. One who has no faith is bound to suffer more. One who has lots of faith will still suffer. In fact, the one with faith (who will incidentally also have courage, as faith and courage are synonymous) will be open to much more suffering in reality, though their faith covers much of it and it appears they suffer less. They simply have a better way of coping with the trials of life.
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Life was never meant to be easy... and don't forget the second bit. But take courage: it can be delightful. This is surely a marvellous revelation for anyone who can admit that life: is designed to be hard, to require faith, and courage, because help is near, for in the words of the prophet "Every valley shall be raised up, every mountain and hill made low; the rough ground shall become level, the rugged places a plain." (Isaiah 40:4) When we make a straight path for the LORD in our lives, he comes and makes things easier... not easy, just easier. The trouble is, for the person who doesn't believe in God, it requires even a mustard seed of faith to 'give it a try.' (Many can't risk their pride for the humility required to give God the moments he needs to make the difference in their life. A challenge: give him one real month. One real month where you courageously hand your life to him.)
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Life will never be easy. It is only designed to be easy when we have been given rite of passage into the next dimension: the ultimate dimension.
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What does it say to us now then? Perhaps a good way to look at it is this. 'If life is not easy for me, how hard is it for the poor unfortunate who has it even tougher than me?' It is a great blessing in life to know that there are literally millions of others on this earth, who for a myriad of reasons, are bereft of the comfort we ourselves live in every day. It is not a great blessing that others go without, but it is a great blessing that we might have much in comparison.
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Truly the most wonderful thing on earth is to help someone less fortunate than ourselves. This has nothing to do with material wealth. Some people are obscenely rich, yet spiritually they're very poor. A spiritual person can help this sort person; they are less fortunate. To help someone is to know God's blessing: his peace and contentment, his grace, his provision.
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Smile, life wasn't meant to be easy. Can you look into a mirror when the going is tough and smile and laugh? Things could be worse! Look around you. Look at what you have: your senses, your sense of humour, your ability to walk, talk etc. Now, this is making a leaping assumption that you have these things. I would apologise profusely, for instance, if you read this, but could not walk! Or could not talk! Or could not laugh, smell, see, hear, taste or touch!
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Life wasn't meant to be easy, but in truth, and proving God faithful, it can be delightful for the courageous person in each one of us.
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Take courage and look on the bright side.
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© Steve J. Wickham, 2008. All rights reserved Worldwide.

2 comments:

Joy Argow said...

Landed on your blog tonight. Like this post. Used some thoughts/verses in my own post tonight....
Thanks for your encouragement

Anonymous said...

Just come across your blog, and have appreciated reading this entry.

Just one comment:
I remember those times and listening to a radio interview with Malcolm Fraser where he said he was disappointed that what he said had not been reported in full, that he was quoting George Bernard Shaw and the complete quote he had given was: (in my memory) “Life wasn’t meant to be easy, but take heart my son: it can be delightful!". [As I only heard this once on the radio he could have just as easily said - “Life wasn’t meant to be easy, my child, but take courage: it can be delightful!”]

I think it suited elements of the media, and others at the time to only quote Malcolm Fraser on part of what he had said - and this myth continues to be perpetuated.

I was not then, nor have I ever been a Liberal supporter, but I have always been very sorry Malcolm Fraser was misquoted - I wonder what effect it would have had on individuals and the nation if the full quote was disseminated in the same way the half truth has been.